Shiny New Irrational Fears About LGBTQ+ People

Tim Sniffen
5 min readApr 25, 2022
SOMETHING BAD IS HAPPENING, WE SHOULD ERASE GAY PEOPLE! WE’LL SORT OUT THE DETAILS LATER!

Gay people are groomers. Haven’t you heard? We have this secret agenda of readying youngsters for horrible things — and now we’ve been found out. Also, anyone who opposes the new Gay People Can Only Have The Mushiest Avocados At Whole Foods amendment, or whatever it is this week, well, they must be a groomer too. Congrats! Here’s your trenchcoat and binoculars.

It’s an efficient bit of panicked slander, no denying it. You know what makes you sound like a pedophile? Arguing that you’re not a pedophile.

It’s also one we’ve done before.

Yeah, there was this whole crazy time around the sixties when queer culture had the persona of a leering pencil-mustached gentleman, lurking in the shadows. This turned out to be John Waters, scouting film locations. Then people got to know us, then Will & Grace proved we could be trusted for twenty-two minutes every Thursday, and so on through the slow march towards public acceptance, to the point where no one bats an eye at the siblings-or-lovers generic gay couple in the latest Subaru Outback commercial.

Except now, select groups are trotting out “groomer” from storage and treating it like a shocking new phenomenon, like Uncle Wayne making everyone to sit through his newly-digitized VHS recording of him scoring the big goal at the homecoming game.

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Tim Sniffen

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